Ensure that we don't wait forever for upgrading an inbound connection
to occur.
Note that transports should return an AbortableSource when passed an
AbortSignal so outbound connections to not need the same fix.
Also adds default timeouts for the ping, fetch, and identify protocols.
Instead of trying to connect to every peer in the peer store when
we start a node, only connect to the peers that have been marked
with a `keep-alive` tag.
* feat: limit protocol streams per-connection
Uses the `maxInboundStreams` and `maxOutboundStreams` of the `registrar.handle`
opts to limit the number of concurrent streams open on each connection
on a per-protocol basis.
Both values default to 1 so some tuning will be necessary to set
appropriate values for some protocols.
* chore: make error codes consistent
* chore: fix up examples
There are a few places in the codebase where we send/receive data from the network without timeouts/abort controllers which means the user has to wait for the underlying socket to timeout which can take a long time depending on the platform, if at all.
This change ensures we can time out while running identify (both flavours), ping and fetch and adds tests to ensure there are no regressions.
