fix: close streams when protocol limits are reached (#1301)

- If a stream is opened that exceeds inbound/outbound limits, reset that stream (if it is incoming) or abort and throw (if it is outgoing)
- Make the error message more helpful (say which protocol has breached the limit)
- Increase the default stream limits so we don't trigger this by accident when a remote dials us with a protocol we don't support

examples/delegated-routing/package.json

@@ -3,14 +3,14 @@
   "version": "0.1.0",
   "private": true,
   "dependencies": {
-    "@chainsafe/libp2p-noise": "^6.2.0",
+    "@chainsafe/libp2p-noise": "^7.0.1",
     "ipfs-core": "^0.14.1",
     "libp2p": "../../",
     "@libp2p/delegated-content-routing": "^2.0.1",
     "@libp2p/delegated-peer-routing": "^2.0.1",
     "@libp2p/kad-dht": "^3.0.0",
-    "@libp2p/mplex": "^3.0.0",
-    "@libp2p/webrtc-star": "^2.0.1",
+    "@libp2p/mplex": "^4.0.1",
+    "@libp2p/webrtc-star": "^3.0.0",
     "@libp2p/websockets": "^3.0.0",
     "react": "^17.0.2",
     "react-dom": "^17.0.2",